Who have you lost that is close to you?
What was their relationship to you?
When did they pass, and how did it happen?
Was it expected, or was it a shock?
What do you miss the most about this person?
What are some of your fondest memeries?
What did you do to help yourself get through it?
How do you celebrate their life?
When do you most remember them?

What do you imagine your funeral will be like?
How would you like it to be?
What would you do to add your personal touch?
Who might be there that you might not expect?
What music do you want to play?
Where would the funeral take place?
How would you like people to celebrate your life?

REMEMBER: Have fun with this and don't take it too hard or too seriously. The purpose is to simply make you see things from new perspective, and perhaps gratitude that you still have time to change things.